Wednesday, November 11, 2009
And I do have this fabulous one listed with ThatsScrapInc.com
United States Map (Sorry, I don't have time to upload a freebie today!)
I would like to take this opportunity to thank each and every veteran. It doesn't matter if we believe in the war or if we back Obama... we should all support our vets and our soldiers.
Saturday, October 31, 2009
Today though, they guys got all scary and we went to the mall (which was super-super packed!), then to Krolls for a bite and then out trick-or-treating the neighborhood! Skyler made a killing. Everyone just loved how creepy Skyler and Chris looked.
What great memories and I can't wait to scrap them!
Monday, October 12, 2009
Sunday, September 6, 2009
Saturday, August 29, 2009
If you have them on your blog, website or on a website or blog I can link to, I'll add the links to my blog right in this message for everyone to enjoy!
Thursday, August 20, 2009
I don't know much about dream interpreation, but I do find it fascinating. If you have any suggestions, please feel free to send them my way :) I would love to hear what any/all of you have to say. You can also email me privately if you'd like.
I know they say you don't dream in color, but I do. Most of my dreams are full of color. Is that odd? Thankfully, I very rarely dream. Well, I should say if I do dream, I don't remember it. I had such terrible nightmares as a child that I literally taught myself to control them and to not dream. Anyway, would love to hear what you think :)
Monday, August 17, 2009
We went to the firetruck parade in Casselton over the weekend. Last I heard they thought there were 181 firetrucks that participated! I think I got pictures of every one of them too! I'll be uploading to my webshots as soon as I can. After the parade we walked around the street fair and visited the vendors. There were some very unique ones there! Casselton is such a cute little town. I enjoyed visiting there.
This has been a very busy and eventful summer. I'll be glad to see fall. I just love fall colors and the crispness in the air! Although, this summer hasn't been very summer like. Last night was downright chilly! I am very excited about getting some fall photos this year. Fall is my favorite season and yet, I don't have any fall photos! My dh says he knows of the perfect spot for us to take a day and get away to. I know it's in Minnesota, but I don't recall where he said.
Crazy North Dakota weather so I don't know when we'll be going. Hard to tell when the trees will be turning this year!
Anyway, just wanted to catch up and let ya'll know what's going on. I'll post photos of the completed donation album as soon as I can.
Take care! :)
Saturday, August 1, 2009
On the opposite spectrum are the people that if their child ran in front of a bus, they would stand out of harms way screaming "someone save my child!" while pushing everyone else around them in front of the bus to save the child.
Once the child was out of harms way (for today) and returned, that same parent would then claim how they had saved the child and accuse everyone else of not doing enough.
Do you know people like that? They are the most difficult personality types to deal with. For me anyway. They are known as narcissists (See below). They put themselves ahead of everyone else and will destroy those around them, if needed, to get what they desire.
I love to do personality tests and I'm fascinated with people. I seriously considered going to school to be a psychologist, but instead went to be a teacher. The reason I changed fields was that the darkness in people, the negativity, is like fine dust. The more you are around it, the more that clings to you. I knew I wouldn't be able to leave the job at work. I care too much.
Sometimes I'm surprised by the results of my personality tests, but rarely. Do you ever take them? I would love to hear from my readers on this subject. Facebook is fun for this. Some of their little quizzes are just dumb, but some are amazingly insightful. So far they say I'm determined, outgoing, loving and intelligent, although stubborn lol
My children are an extension of me (as children usually are lol). They are kind, generous, intelligent, hard working and amazingly insightful. I adore them and I'm so proud of them. They have grown to be amazing adults. Some of the paths may have been rocky, as life can be hard, but in the end they are moving forward and they are young adults that I'm very proud of.
Feeling a little introspective today I guess :)
How many have read this blog post?
The narcissist is described as turning inward for gratification rather than depending on others and as being excessively preoccupied with issues of personal adequacy, power, and prestige. Narcissistic personality disorder is closely linked to self-centeredness. It is also colloquially referred to as "the God complex."
Theories on narcissistic personality disorder and shame
It has been suggested that narcissistic personality disorder may be related to defenses against shame.
Gabbard suggested NPD could be broken down into two subtypes. He saw the "oblivious" subtype as being grandiose, arrogant and thick skinned and the "hypervigilant" subtype as easily hurt, oversensitive and ashamed.
He suggested that the oblivious subtype presents a large, powerful, grandiose self to be admired, envied and appreciated. This self is the antithesis of the weakened and internalized self that hides in a generic state of shame. This is how the internalized self fends off devaluation, while the hypervigilant subtype neutralizes devaluation by seeing others as unjust abusers. This hypervigilant type does not fend off devaluation; he is obsessed with it.
Jeffrey Young, who coined the term "Schema Therapy", a technique originally developed by Aaron T. Beck (1979), also links shame to NPD. He sees the so-called Defectiveness Schema as a core schema of NPD, next to the Emotional Deprivation and Entitlement Schemas. All Schemas may incorporate maladaptive coping styles, for example, the defectiveness schema may include:
- Surrender: Chooses critical partners and significant others; puts him- or herself down.
- Avoidance: Avoids sharing "shameful" thoughts and feelings with partners and significant others due to fear of rejection.
- Overcompensation: Behaves in a critical or superior way toward others; tries to come across as perfect.
DSM IV-TR criteria
A pervasive pattern of grandiosity (in fantasy or behavior), need for admiration, and lack of empathy, beginning by early adulthood and present in a variety of contexts, as indicated by five (or more) of the following:
- Has a grandiose sense of self-importance
- Is preoccupied with fantasies of unlimited success, power, brilliance, beauty or ideal love (megalomania)
- Believes they are "special" and can only be understood by, or should associate with, people (or institutions) who are also "special" or of high status
- Requires excessive admiration
- Has a sense of entitlement
- Is interpersonally exploitative
- Lacks empathy
- Is often envious of others or believes others are envious of him or her
- Shows arrogant, haughty behaviors or attitudes
To the extent that people are pathologically narcissistic, they can be controlling, blaming, self-absorbed, intolerant of others’ views, unaware of others' needs and of the effects of their behavior on others, and insistent that others see them as they wish to be seen. They may also demand certain behavior from their children because they see the children as extensions of themselves, and need the children to represent them in the world in ways that meet the parents’ emotional needs. (For example, a narcissistic father who was a lawyer demanded that his son, who had always been treated as the "favorite" in the family, enter the legal profession as well. When the son chose another career, the father rejected and disparaged him.)
These traits will lead overly narcissistic parents to be very intrusive in some ways, and entirely neglectful in others. The children are punished if they do not respond adequately to the parents’ needs. This punishment may take a variety of forms, including physical abuse, angry outbursts, blame, attempts to instill guilt, emotional withdrawal, and criticism. Whatever form it takes, the purpose of the punishment is to enforce compliance with the parents' narcissistic needs.
People who are overly narcissistic commonly feel rejected, humiliated and threatened when criticised. To protect themselves from these dangers, they often react with disdain, rage, and/or defiance to any slight criticism, real or imagined. To avoid such situations, some narcissistic people withdraw socially and may feign modesty or humility. In the case of feeling the lack of admiration, adulation, attention and affirmation the person can also manifest wishes to be feared and to be notorious (narcissistic supply).
Though individuals with NPD are often ambitious and capable, the inability to tolerate setbacks, disagreements or criticism, along with lack of empathy, make it difficult for such individuals to work cooperatively with others or to maintain long-term professional achievements. With narcissistic personality disorder, the person's perceived fantastic grandiosity, often coupled with a hypomanic mood, is typically not commensurate with his or her real accomplishments.
The exploitative, sense of entitlement, lack of empathy, disregard for others, and constant need for attention inherent in NPD adversely affect interpersonal relationships.
Friday, July 10, 2009
The colors are going to be red, yellow, black and white
I want to learn more about patches and badges
I really need to learn more about our home town heroes
What do you know? What can you share? Have you ever done a fire fighter layout? I am desperately seeking inspiration!!!
If you know of a fire fighter or other home town hero that would send me a patch for my friends dad, I would appreciate it! He's done his fair share over the years and I want to honor him with an album. Two albums in three weeks.... I know I can.... I know I can.... I know I can!!! :)
Check back in about a month for photos of the albums!!!
Thanks in advance for any help!
Friday, June 12, 2009
I knew it was time for a change well over a year ago. At first it was like a big family and everyone supported each other there. The last two years though... suffice it to say the glue that held it all together and ran it so well... he retired and took the joy of working there with him. I felt like my life had become quicksand and the job had become just a paycheck. It was time to do something about it.
I tend to be one of those people that when I make up my mind, it's made up and I follow through! My husband has been so wonderful and absolutely supported my decision. Life has gone from quicksand to sunshine and blossoms!
Makes me nervous lol
Just wanted to let my friends and followers know.
Monday, June 1, 2009
ThatsScrapInc.com is having a birthday! If you haven't signed up for the newsletter yet, I highly advise it. It's a great newsletter with store news, product reviews and the exciting news going on with the store and the designers.
To view this months newsletter, just click on the pic to the right. Many of the designers are offering a BOGO this month! I won't be able to participate due to personal commitments that will keep me to busy.
I LOVE the new product Sherri is carrying now to hold the Stickles! As any of my followers and class attendees can verify, I adore stickles!
Just wanted to let ya'll know about this fun newsletter and wish ThatsScrapInc.com a Happy Birthday!
Tuesday, May 26, 2009
This album holds the layouts perfectly :) It is in PDF format. If you can't open the file, just go to adobe.com and download the free pdf reader. To get the instructions click HERE
I used chipboard to cut out a triangle and covered it in pattern paper. Then I layered two more triangles onto that. It gave this album a wonderful 3-D embellishment!
I used the same large corner on the back cover, but I didn't include a flower there.
I wouldn't normally used these patterns on layouts, but on this album they turned out vibrant, cheerful and just plain fun!
Pic 1 - The front cover for the album. The rings go in the holes on the left
Pic 2 - A close up of the flower I created for the album
Pic 3 - Inside the front cover. I made a little pocket to hide the ends of the ribbon
I participated in a lot of 6x6 recipe page swaps. These little albums will be perfect to hold those recipe pages.
Saturday, May 9, 2009
Have you scrapped a page about your mom? Whether she is here to answer the questions or not, be sure to capture as much about her as you can. Great things to include are the basics like;
where was she born and when
what are/were her favorite foods, colors, music, movies etc
what was her favorite book and why
what did she want to be when she grew up and why
what is her youngest/earliest memory
I'll try to get a layout sketch posted either tomorrow night or monday. I'll be visiting my own mom tomorrow and my daughter, but she doesn't know it yet lol I just adore those grandkids and miss them soooo much.
Take care everyone!
PS Be sure to get a photo with mom tomorrow for your layout! Here is a free file that cuts a gorgeous frame for that photo of you and mom! My mothers day gift to you :)
It won't be free after tomorrow night, so be sure to grab it up!
Friday, April 24, 2009
On top of everything else, I've got a horrible head cold so we are just hanging out at home tonight. It might be the cold meds, but this file came to mind and I just had to sit down and make it!
All you have to do to get it, is to post on your blog that I'm giving away a free file and leave me a comment with a link to your blog :)
I love to blog hop and I'm curious about who reads my blog or is aware of it. I thought this would be a great way to maybe see new blogs and a to find out who reads mine :)
Monday, April 20, 2009
The rules for this award are as follows:
2. Link to the person from whom you've received the awards
3. Nominate eight blogs of your choice
4. Leave a message on the nominees blogs
I have nominated the following as Kreativ bloggers:
Congratulations! You definitely are Kreativ Bloggers! Thanks for sharing with us!
Wednesday, April 15, 2009
If you use it, I would love to see what you've done! Just send me a link to where I can view it.
Friday, April 10, 2009
- Tear Bear make and take including all supplies and tools needed to make your tear bear! by Esther K of EsthersCreativeDesigns
- Cruise Layout with title and cruise ship paper piecing by Tammey B
- Stampin Up Card workshop with Linda S
- Iris Folding
- Cruise group photo layout
- How to make a paper peicing from scratch
- Decorate your door challenge with prize
- Open Crop and use of shared tools
- Island Excursions with plenty of photo ops!
- And so much more!!!!
Be sure to get your registration form in ASAP! We do have a few spots left, but this is on a first come first serve basis and ONLY those that register using this registration form will be able to attend any of the group events. Anyone can join the cruise, but only those with an SBC Cruise badge will get into the events :)
The registration form says March, but we got an extension and a few extra rooms that we were able to book at this fabulous price. Hurry though as there are only a couple of rooms still available!!
Read more here: http://www.tammeybrown.com/SBCCruise2010.html
Thursday, April 9, 2009
This price includes your cabin, food, entertainment, 24 hour a day crop space, inspiration, photo ops, a group photo, and so much more! I am SO excited! So grab your family and join us on this 7 day, fun filled, sun filled, exciting cruise!! The best thing is, it's a whole year away so you have plenty of time to plan!
We will be coordinating with the cruise attendees on what tools they are bringing in order to minimize luggage. For example, if I bring my CraftRobo, then I will share it and someone else thinking about bringing theirs can bring a different tool instead :)
So far we have 27 registered to go. This will be great fun!!! Make sure you get your registration form in ASAP.
For more information, you can visit http://tammeybrown.com/SBCCruise2010.html
Wednesday, April 8, 2009
Monday, March 30, 2009
Many have had to build walls around their home, help a neighbor or family member or jumped in and helped as a volunteer. For all of those, here is a layout to help you scrap your experience.
Journaling IS the most important part of a layout like this.
I made two separate cutter files to go with this sketch. One is of a single house with sandbags and the second is the one shown here in the sketch. To view these files, please visit http://tammeybrown.cuttersmarket.com
Friday, March 27, 2009
These photos are NOT lakes or beaches. This is ALL farmland south of Fargo under a whole lot of flood water.
I have been forced to take a break from scrapbook blogging. I live in Fargo, ND and we are experiencing some very serious flooding. The Red River flows through Fargo and north to Canada. Normally this river is about 14' deep. Right now Red is 40 feet deep and climbing! So if you've missed us on the national news, Good Morning America, the Today Show and more - just google Fargo Flooding 2009 to see the devastation.
For more flood photos be sure to visit my photo a day blog at: http://tammeybrown365.blogspot.com/
Tuesday, March 24, 2009
I think I'm going to start working with hybrid scrapbooking. That is where digital and paper/physical items are used.
The only reason I can't do it now is that I don't have a 12x12 printer. I just love being able to use a photo as the background! It allows me to personalize the layout, but also really match the content! Just click on the pics to see them as full versions.
Monday, March 23, 2009
Fargo Flood Cam is HERE - Now realize what you are viewing is downtown Fargo and that normally you don't even notice the water there! It's a tiny little river wayyyy down 30' + lower than it is now!!
3-25-09 - Good Morning America (March 25, 2009) http://abcnews.go.com/GMA Go to videos and click on Fargo Flooding. Story is http://abcnews.go.com/US/wireStory?id=7166172
I've compiled a few links for those emailing me and asking me about the situation:
- WDAY Radio - http://www.wday.com/
- City of Fargo: http://cityoffargo.com/
- City of West Fargo - http://westfargond.gov/
- City of Moorhead - http://www.cityofmoorhead.com/
- Local Information & Bloggers - http://www.fargostar.com/
- Local photos updated daily blog - http://cbrown47.blogspot.com/
- NDSU - Fargo Flood Homepage - http://www.ndsu.edu/fargo_geology/fargoflood.htm
- ABC News - http://kstp.com/article/stories/s841747.shtml?cat=1
- Flood sites around the web - http://www.cnw.com/~dkdist12/national.htm
- Area Voices - http://www.areavoices.com/springflood/
- MyFox - http://www.myfoxtwincities.com/dpp/weather/fargo_flood/Fargo_1897_Record_Flood_Red_River_Sandbagging_Mar_20_2009
- More local photos - http://www.kxma.com/photoGallery.asp?task=gallery&GalleryId=1
- Facebook - http://www.facebook.com/group.php?gid=57966338284
- March 25 - Dynomite ice - bismark
Thursday, March 19, 2009
Let me know
COMMENTS? COMMENTS? COMMENTS? COMMENTS?
Comments are the ONLY way I know I have readers and any interest at all. Anybody out there?
Tuesday, March 17, 2009
Her wonderful and creative ideas made me see this file in a whole new way! I just love what she did here and how cute are those bunnies?!!
Here you see her very adorable bunny hutch using my gingerbread house cutter file!
This is a photo of the cutter file as a Gingerbread house. Thank you so much Kristal, for such a fun little bunny hutch!!! I might just have to make a layout using your idea!!!
Monday, March 9, 2009
This sketch is the inspiration for next weeks Tuesday night class. That isn't true, the Stickles inspired it! They made me think of rainbows and Spring filled days!
I am so excited to offer you an exclusive coupon for 10% off ALL of your Stickle purchases from my favorite online store!!! Now it will be easier to get each of the colors of the rainbow for next weeks class!!! I have purchased from ThatsScrapInc.com many times and been super impressed with the speedy delivery and wonderful customer service!
I will also be using the following Stickles colors:
Optional for the coins in the pot O' gold
Use coupon code 'Tammey' to get this fabulous discount! Thanks ThatsScrapInc.com!!
I put in a request to Esther, from EsthersCreativeDesigns, for a Leprechaun tear bear and I will be adding that left of the pot. She is soo creative!!! (The tear bear is represented by the green guy on the right side of the sketch) Not only did she create a wonderful little guy to work with my layout, but she is offering it to all of my readers at a discount!!! Just mention the discount code of 'Tammey' and save 10% on the Leprechaun Tear Bear purchase!!!!! Thanks Esther!
UPDATE: I just ordered all of the colors above plus a few more using the discount code! AND Esthers Leprechaun bear is in my possession! It is even cuter in person!! LOVE it!!
Sunday, March 8, 2009
How cute is that?? Great job Sky!
Thursday, March 5, 2009
I put in a request to Esther, from EsthersCreativeDesigns, for a Leprechaun tear bear and I will be adding that left of the pot. She is soo creative!!! (The tear bear is represented by the green guy on the right side of the sketch)
I will also be using the following products:
Optional for the coins in the pot O' gold
Tuesday, March 3, 2009
I've included a supply list at the bottom of the sketch.
I will be using the mask paper piecing and Mardi Gras title as shown here.
Monday, March 2, 2009
1 - You must have the desire, experience and time to be able to cut at least three - six files a month (you'll pick them). Please realize I do NOT work with simple diecuts. Make sure you are familiar with my style before requesting to join my team.
2 - You will have access to my newest files free of charge.
3 - You cut the file and assemble it in one week. Then embellish or use it as desired. Take a photo of the completed project/file and email the photo to me.
4 - In accepting to be a part of my design team, you give me permission to use the photos of the finished files on my blog, in my store and on my web site. You may then keep the cutter file for your personal use as desired.
5 - I will expect feedback on each file. I will be looking for how it cut, ways to improve it, items that might be added etc. You must be comfortable being honest with me and helping me improve the files.
I will be looking for five members, each one with a different machine. (KNK, Wishblade/CraftRobo/Silhouette, Cricut etc) You must be able to cut one of the following file types: gsd, knk, ai, eps, svg
If you are interested in joining my cutter team, please contact me at tammeys at yahoo dot com
Sunday, March 1, 2009
Many people have asked me if I sale my layouts and I've always said no, I plan to use them. Well, it's reached that point where I have to admit I'm not using them! I keep putting it off and I just need to step up and either use them or let someone else.
I love all of these layouts and have really enjoyed sharing them with my friends. My good friend, Esther, has encouraged me to sale them. She was at my house and saw my layout storage. LOL oh, if I'd have had a camera at that moment! She has convinced me they aren't doing anyone any good if they aren't being used.
So, today is the day. I AM going to put them in my newly created Etsy store. Thank you dear Olenka and Esther for bringing this cute little site to my attention. Now though, I haven't a clue what to put as a $ on them! I randomly picked some of the layouts and I'm going to post them. Maybe I should just put them on my website? I would LOVE some feedback!! Do people that follow my blog buy layouts or do you all just make them on your own??
If these sell, I'll start posting the layouts from each weeks class there.
Friday, February 27, 2009
Don't forget my TSI Sketch Challenge!!
This sketch to a layout will run from February 1-28th. You must create a layout based on my castle sketch (see sketch below) , take a photo of it and upload to the gallery of the forum HERE. All layouts must be uploaded by Feb 28th to qualify for this challenge.
Everyone that uploads will be given points for the following:
5 pts for including a title
5 pts for having photos on the layout
5 pts for using one of my files
5 pts for journaling
2.5 pts for participating
2.5 pts for using any type of bling
2.5 pts for using hand written journaling
2.5 pts for using water color pencils or ink
Everyone that participates will get a fun, layered Valentines file from me.
Everyone earning at least 25 points will get the file I'm currently working on!
Everyone that purchases this castle file AND uses it on their layout will get the new file I'm working on for FREE! It goes great with this gorgeous castle! So far there is a princess and balcony. I will be including a welded and matted title as well.
Anyone is welcome to join this free forum and my exciting sketch to a layout challenge!! Here is the sketch.Comments? Does this challenge interest you? Are you going to participate?
Thank you Cyndi Budhi for the fabulous layout using my castle file! Cyndi is a new cutter owner and tackled this file as one of the first files she's cut! She did a great job and entered it into the TSI challenge. I love the colors she used!
Karon also joined in the fun! I really enjoyed this challenge and loved how each person created their layout and interpreted it just a little bit different. Karon used the metallic paper from ThatsScrapInc.com. I recently ordered some of that paper and I just love it!! Fabulous stuff.
Excellent job ladies! I appreciate all of your time and effort and thank you from the bottom of my heart for sharing your talent with us!
I will be sending your prize files to you here shortly!
Tuesday, February 24, 2009
I am sharing the document I made to create the letters on the pink background and the journal box on the bottom corner of the right side page. Just click HERE to get the pdf with the pink background behind the letters. Click HERE to get the pdf with the plain background.
The supplies and dimensions to create this layout are included on the sketch. I did not follow the sketch exactly, I rarely do. I added the pattern paper border to each side and the photo mattes to show where the photos will go. The flower on the right side border is Flora Doodles by Petaloo. I got them, and all of the paper here, at Hobby Lobby tonight.
Here is the sketch:
Sitting Tear Bear!
These are the perfect size for a wall hanging in a child's room! She has pink, blue, mint green, and yellow, as well as many other colors!
Click on pic to go to Esther's site!
Diploma in hand and a grad hat on
Wearing a bow tie
Birthday bear with gift and party hat
Holding a gaily colored basket of Easter eggs
Wow, there are so many ideas!! I buy critters from her all the time and I'm always impressed with the quality, speed with which she gets the packages out and how well she packages everything! Be sure to check this one out! Sooooo cute!!!! I'm getting one :)
Sunday, February 22, 2009
Esther, from EsthersCreativeDesigns cut my I LOVE SCRAPBOOKING file shown here and then added one of her very adorable peek-A-boo bears! This prize is the actual item cut out and embellished as shown here on a red background. It is not for the file, but for the completed heart frame with bear.
Just click on the picture of the completed items on a red background to the left to take you to the post. So far there are only 13 comments. I will announce the winner this Friday and mail the completed I Love Scrapbooking with peek-A-boo bear to the winner so make sure you leave me your email address so I can contact you.
What do you love to scrapbook?
(Left: Thank you Esther for cutting the file and creating these adorable pieces! To see more of Esthers amazing little critters visit her at http://estherscreativedesigns.blogspot.com/ )
Friday, February 20, 2009
Be sure to check it out!
My files are all tested and guaranteed. If you ever have any trouble you just let me know and I'll fix it right away. I strive to make easy to cut and assemble files because I do NOT like to chase down little pieces!
Amazing show of humanity and sportsmanship. Way to go guys!
Sunday, February 15, 2009
Esther recently had a challenge on her blog and Ms Olenka won!
Friday, February 13, 2009
TSI is also offering ALL stickles, including the new signature series for 25% off all day Valentines Day....ENJOY! The coupon code for the sticles is sticky.
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